How nice it would be if he could read your mind and just “know.” I hear so many women feeling frustrated that their partner isn’t able to know what they need.
As your frustration is completely understandable, you need to know that men communicate differently. If you don’t express yourself assertively, they may not think that anything wrong. On the other hand, we, women are trained to read people’s emotions and try to modify our emotions, so that others will feel more comfortable. It’s just natural that you feel frustrated that your partner doesn’t give you the same kind of luvin’.
Instead of fuming inside and hoping that he will "read your mind," you can express yourself and create a powerful bond with a guy you are dating, your husband, or boyfriend. Assertive communication will also help you build better boundaries and express yourself from the place of self-love rather than from resentment towards him.
Self-love will enable you to be soft and compassionate towards him and yourself, so when you communicate, it will help you get closer to the guy you are involved with. Instead of him thinking that you are perfect, he will see you as vulnerable, and he will want to protect you from all the villains, including himself.
How cool would that be? It can. My course Self-love Revolution will teach you how to communicate with your man.
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